He said that, she said that. They all said something about love. But I tell you if someone tried to suggest a definition of love then he is a moron (in the simpleton sense), a liar, a maniac, a slave, a politician, a lame dictionary writer or merely a bluffer. Does this belief hold true for Shakespeare, Nietzsche, Einstein and the long list of great other folks who for one time or another opined something about love? Certainly yes!
There's nothing bad with what they did, I tell you also. Human beings as we are, we try to make sense to things we deem as senseless. Love is senseless, that's another bluff. But we choose to be bluffers because the other choice is we get crazy prying over what it is. We try to connect what it is to what our limited mental capacity can grasp and deduct. I maintain one bluff that love is a lot like life and life is a lot like love, they are almost interchangeable. That's why, over the top and usually, we define love based on what we experienced, felt and thought of it. More and more, to the dimension or dimensions we are familiar with in life. That's how far we can be able to define it and Abell 2218 is still nearer to us compared to all our love definitions combined. (Abell 2218 is the farthest known galaxy from Earth.) To put this matter into a reasonable and conversational perspective, five
words: we just cannot define it. But hey we are still humans, welcome to the club all ye bluffers! Apparently I am too. As a "preferred quotable person" by some people I know, sometimes I just can't help but add bluff to the heap of billion bluffs. For one time, I used to tell them that love sucks because it's only an illusion that we are chasing for the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow when actually it's just cornflakes there. Something like that. My current default answer to what I think about love? You are any of the three if you can define what love is: (A) dead or (B) God or (C) fucked-up with top-grade weed.
Before I end this blog of bluffs, I share you some lines from one of my all-time favorite movies, Meet Joe Black. It's a wonderful movie in case you weren't able to see it in 1998 because you were too busy following Tabing Ilog's teeny-booper bluffs. A dying man (William Parrish played by Anthony Hopkins) and Death himself (Joe Black/Death played by Brad Pitt) are the main characters of this film. I always put greater trust in a dying man/woman, like I said in my previous post, except Britney Spears. And oh yes, Meet Joe Black contains a lot of bluffs that I loved. *************** William Parish: Love is passion, obsession, someone you can't live without. If you don't start with that, what are you going to end up with? Fall head over heels. I say find someone you can love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back. And how do you find him? Forget your head and listen to your heart. I'm not hearing any heart. Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back. Because, the truth is there is no sense living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love -- well, you haven't lived a life at all. You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived. *************** Joe Black: I don't care Bill. I love her. William Parrish: How perfect for you - to take whatever you want because it pleases you. That's not love. Joe Black: Then what is it? William Parrish: Some aimless infatuation which, for the moment, you feel like indulging - it's missing everything that matters. Joe Black: Which is what? William Parrish: Trust, responsibility, taking the weight for your choices and feelings, and spending the rest of your life living up to them. And above all, not hurting the object of your love. Joe Black: So that's what love is according to William Parrish? William Parrish: Multiply it by infinity, and take it to the depth of forever, and you will still have barely a glimpse of what I'm talking about. Joe Black: Those were my words. William Parrish: They're mine now. *************** [Watching the fireworks above the party before they depart] William Parrish: It's hard to let go, isn't it? Joe Black: Yes it is, Bill. William Parrish: And that's life... what can I tell you. *************** Joe Black: Should you choose to test my resolve in this matter, you will be facing a finality beyond your comprehension, and you will not be counting days, or months, or years, but milleniums in a place with no doors. *************** William Parrish: I loved Susan from the moment she was born, and I love her now and every minute in between. And what I dream of is a man who will discover her, and that she will discover a man who will love her, who is worthy of her, who is of this world, this time and has the grace, compassion, and fortitude to walk beside her as she makes her way through this beautiful thing called life. *************** Susan Parrish: Do you love making love to me? Joe Black: Yes Susan Parrish: More than peanut butter? Joe Black: Yes. Much more. *************** Jamaican Woman: It nice it happen to you. Like you come to the island and had a holiday. Sun didn't burn you red-red, just brown. You sleep and no mosquito eat you. But the truth is, it bound to happen if you stay long enough. So take that nice picture you got in your head home with you, but don't be fooled. We lonely here mostly too. If we lucky, maybe, we got some nice pictures to take with us.
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Production Year: 2004 - Drama - Director: Nick Cassavetes - Original Language: English - Classification: 15 years and over, 12 years and over - Starring: Rachel McAdams, Ryan Gosling, Gena Rowlands
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